So anyways, I saw this girl working at a coffee shop. So I asked her out on a date for Saturday night. She said she was working till closing, so I asked her to come to velvet with me after she got off. She agreed, so we went clubbin and all was well. She called on Sunday to hang out.. didn't think much of it and said okay. We went to the pool for a little bit then ordered a pizza and watched a movie in. The next morning I woke up with 3 text messages awaiting my morning yawn. It was from her saying, "Good morning baby cakes" with a list to-do list of things that I told her I needed to do. I thought, well that's nice of her to remind me of the errands I had to run. As the week progressed I noticed more and more text messages, back to back. She wouldn't give me 5 minutes to respond her before she would jump to the conclusion that I was avoiding her.
At this point I'm getting a little freaked out. I've never encountered anything like this before. She even said to me, "somebody call 911 cause you stole a piece of my heart" (this is after 1 full day of chillin).
I told her I'm not really looking for a serious relationship, and let's try to take things kinda slow. She makes me feel bad by saying stuff like, "You're the only person I've been like this to"..
I don't know what I'm supposed to say to her. any suggestions?!

LOL. girls say lines like that? thats funny.
ReplyDeletebut in all seriousness. she seems a little needy for you... but on the other hand maybe you keep saying things that hint that you dont want to take it slow?? just a thought.
at the end of the day, i always say... take it slow. theres no need to be rushing things. and she should understand to turn it down a notch if she likes you that much. hope that helps a LITTLE of your code red.
depends on how hot she is.
ReplyDeleteAnd.. yeah, that's creepy. But gotta be gentle because she might go crazy and you might end up seeing "baby cakes" scribbled in your car hood with a knife.
But yeah, sending tons of texts is relatively harmless, but i've seen things go crazy real quick so cut and run now if this is something you really hate because this is just the tip of the iceberg.
HAHAHA!! whhhhaatttt?? like judyth said, girls do that??
ReplyDeleteBABY CAKES? AFTER ONE DAY?
she's too needy for you and you're too independent. be clear, straight forward, and honest with her about your intentions. if she doesn't get the msg-REITERATE.
trust me on this one go...
this bitch is crazy. just run, run, run. and never look back.
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